Meryl Streep as Lee Wakefield Lacker

Diane Keaton as Bessie Wakefield

Leonardo DiCaprio as Hank Lacker

Robert De Niro as Wallace "Wally" Carter

Hume Cronyn as Marvin Wakefield

Gwen Verdon as Ruth Wakefield

Hal Scardino as Charlie Lacker

Dan Hedaya as Robert "Bob" Carter

Margo Martindale as Charlotte Samit

Cynthia Nixon as Retirement Home Director

Kelly Ripa as Coral

John Callahan as Lance

Olga Merediz as Beauty Shop Lady

Joe Lisi as Bruno

Steve DuMouchel as Gas Station Guy

Bitty Schram as Janine

Lizbeth MacKay as Novice

Helen Stenborg as Nun on Phone

Sally Parrish as Nun #3